Some people perceive the act of ******* on a grave To be a gesture of crude rudeness. I couldn't disagree more. How else is one to interact with the dead? Digging them up is rather time consuming- Not to mention illegal- Whereas your ***** provides a direct stream- A stream of warmth; life- Straight down to your loved one. Their physical situation is already on its way To becoming one with nature. I know if I were down there I'd welcome any and all to Stand or squat. Help me rot.