She still asks and I usually say yes just now it was egg nog and yesterday she wanted to bake a cake from scratch, the frosting, too, which we did from cobbled recipes and conjured the best red velvet that could happen and the frosting, against all odds, was delicious but just now it was egg nog and my young baker required I pour her drink because that is still, for now, my job and too soon she will forget to ask a slight so easy to miss — the responsibility of egg nog glittering small is gold and quickly spent