after you left i seen you in one of my dreams you told me, “be courageous” now isn’t it outrageous that to this day i still can’t get over this but yet i still never wish for you to come back to me to be by my side, actually, in a way i am glad you are gone because then i wouldn’t be so strong, but most days i look around “what about your dad?”, i frown “he is dead”, i say automatically clenching my fists ready for the stares and remarks of disdain and when someone is brave enough to ask i tell them you put a bullet through your brain living with you, a schizophrenic i had to comprehend your impulsive scenes and understand the end just had to happen because with a family like yours we all needed a valuable lesson so when you told me, “be courageous”, i realized what i once thought was so dangerous feeling so much i couldn’t breathe crying so much i didn’t want to see that i desperately needed you here with me courageous in the way i could be brave enough to face my fears and never wish you were still here yes, i forgot the sound of your voice, but i still remember your cologne of choice i am thankful for the time we shared because even if you’re not there, at least i can say i did once have a father who cared.