i prefer the noise of river flowing there's this overall gush you can hear and some weird sort of continuity you really don't get when you sit beside the sea so when i think of my favorite water sounds i like thinking of the river and sometimes when i am in the shower i like to close my eyes pretend i am in the middle of this great river which is engulfing me in its tide and current but i am strong and big enough to stay steady at the center and in this place i am no one but the person in the middle of this river and this person has no cares of who is waiting at the banks and who is not because this person is so strong and can hold themselves against this magnitude this volume of water and i sometimes change the temperature of the shower from hot to cold so i can make it more realistic in my mind and i imagine myself to be big and invulnerable dignified and respected with many scars from battles won with a strong back that does not hurt as much as mine does and i sometimes wonder what i would need to be and do to become as stately as i want to be in my mind i am that person in the river untethered but firmly rooted knowing that they are exactly where they need to be because when needed the river erodes this person's foothold and then rather than panicking this person allows themselves to be carried by this great mighty river because now they know this place is no longer theirs to be so they are moved at the will of the river and themselves to another new place where they will again firmly root themself until the next cycle. i wish i knew to move myself when my time was up. but i don't.