Don't say he ruined me.
He didn't
He took something without invitation
He stole
He sullied himself
I will not speak his name
I will not give him power
I will not have you define me
By his actions
I am not lessened
Or depraved
By his trespass
I am simply angry
At his presumption
That by taking from me
He would have me
I am not a possession
I am not to be owned
I am still my own agent
And his name shall not be spoken with mine