I think people often forget the big picture and think that everything is coming to an end or that they’ve ruined so much in their lives already. Something really overwhelming happens to them for a few months and they think all hope and possible healing is lost. All they want to do is wallow and wish it were all different, never accepting what’s really going on. It’s that kind of self-absorption that stunts the quality time in life. It’s an obsession that stunts our means of enjoyment.