quality time is my top love language. words of affirmation is my second. i value the time i spend with people, because time is something you can't get back. i think people don't realize the power of words. they have the power to inflict pain or uplift others. i suppose that is why i'm slow to speak and think so much before i say something. maybe too often. overthinking everything. but it is important to think before speaking. even though people may not remember what you say, some people remember what you say for a long time. it might be engrained in their minds because of something you said that hurt them. choose your words wisely, and carefully.