hey i know im not perfect either i just wanted you to know that i would just appreciate if maybe you realize that i am an adult and i dont appreciate when you try to teach me "lessons" about my personality or whatever. i know my flaws and i hate myself for them but i also work so hard every day to better myself. you really don't know enough about me to be treating me like you do. i know you dont care to know me but that also means you dont get to tell me how i should be. i know i laugh it off 99% of the time but like it actually gets me really upset, i just dont like to make a scene like that. if i made the same kind of comments to you, you would stand up for yourself - but its really hard for me to do that. i guess all im trying to say here is please understand things from my point of view because i'm trying to push myself in the right direction and i just wish you wouldn't try to push it back.