As a child, I valued the loyalty of friendships and family above all other human endeavors. That commitment led to consistent doses of disappointment. In my adult years, those harsh lessons have taught me the simple truth, that comrades and cousins, romantic partners and parents, they carry the rich aroma of the best coffee. Much like coffee, they help us through our days, and give us a savory expectation to greet each new morning. Also much like coffee, the mugs that contain those relationships eventually run dry. We can scramble to refill the meanings behind each valued connection, but we're often better off switching to a lonely glass of whiskey.