You are a always a girl which I tried to chase. Things change after ignores. So always don't try out what people tell you. Listen to your heart, things will change when you will have faith in yourself than others. Dare to speak ur mind face to face. It happens always some people have a loud mouth, speak what's in their mind without fearing, about results. This doesn't makes them lame or  mediocre they were only following what they had said.