We had this bulletin board with candid photographs that our teachers used to take of us
I guess to commemorate the school year when it got to its end.
There are only two pictures of you
You do not ****** yourself in limelight.
They are strictly taken without your knowledge
The first is one with you working in a group project
Carefully fixing a model of some sort
Quietly working with others
Agreeable, patient, very careful
I was going to take this one, but I came across another.
This one is charmingly black and white
With you alone-sketching something –again probably for a classroom assignment
The only thing I wish of this picture is that you were sketching what you wanted
That it was you, how I remembered it
Putting a heart, a light, a dedication, a sweat, and a story
Something that danced before my eyes
Something that would materialize and be, just be in its own creation and life
I would remember in this your pencil strokes and the way you would look up and kind of smirk at me
And I would wonder if I was hidden away from you while you drew, or if my presence irritated you in some way. I would self consciously observe- not sure to speak, not sure to keep silent. I favored silence.
This picture, your face in it: concentration. A loving concentration, zoned out that you possibly couldn’t see the lucky individual with the camera. I make out the shape of your eyes and a side profile of your face and I wonder, I wonder what is this peace, patience, loneliness, vast adoration that I feel that I deny myself over and over again.
I know this picture is old and it makes me smile still- its what I missed
It reminds me of a song you let me hear
About not being home, my weird sensation of being truly ****** up
And how sweet you were about the whole thing
So on one of the last days of school, when it is excruciatingly possible to never see you, never truly see you again.
I went into the box of pictures and stole away this picture of you when no one was looking
I didn’t want it cheapened by questions
I didn’t have answers, but I had reasons
I imagined it sitting on my desk
A guy, any guy comes over
“Who’s that?”
I would smile and blush and not have an answer
I would only know and not have an answer
There was something careful about you, I guess that reigned me in.
I can’t tell you how badly I needed a friend who understood on that level, how badly I needed you in some strange quiet way
I didn’t want to struggle with a knowledge that could hurt you
“You know the bottom line was
I couldn't change your mind
Honey, could I?”
Confuse you, anger you
I can’t, I can’t
And I can lie and say I don’t know why but I can’t
So selfishly I tried to keep it in simplicity and it only grew more complex
And so now you have given back to you meaning in a picture
The closest thing to a sketch I could, for you to see what’s inside of me
And with a lasting strangeness, like a scar
I miss you.
The words written in the italics are lyrics from a song titled "Empty House" written by the band Paper Route, that is an amazing song and I want them to have credit for the special words they wrote.