How is it that one can control someones life, but also be able to have their own destiny? The feeling of pressure and sadness by another can lead you into depression. Everyone has a choice on how they want to live their life. They just do not know it yet and can't seem to figure out how. Your life is like a blank canvas. You do not know what to paint until you get a little inspiration. Someone can make you happy and lead you into doing what you have always wanted to do. Someone can make you sad and this then leads you into a lifetime of grief. Knowing your boundaries and your weaknesses can help you become a better person as well as to being able to fulfill the life that you have always dreamed of.