Been there done that, got the t-shirt, hmmmmm no !
T shirts wear out fade end up in tatters
Life doesn't, it adapts, we just to often far too weak to see it!
Hmmmm maybe the only part relevant to the saying is if we don't take hold that at all we end up in tatters! We the become the t-shirt!

How about been there done that got a trophy to prove it !
Even if I failed there's a trophy
Cause I came back strong here to fight another day!
Sure to find a the way, or get up again and put another trophy on life's mantlepiece,

It grows
Is real

ITS WISDOM