I stood up for you and covered your *** too many times to count.
Sometimes I wonder why I did it when you treated me so badly in the end of it. We had our good moments but that was when we were alone, when you shined a different way and after awhile that faded into the person (maybe you wanted it that way) everyone else saw you as: selfish, mean, bigoted person. And I wonder why I often allowed you into my life, and clung onto to you so strongly and why I let you ruin me/let me ruin a wonderful relationship until I finally gained the strength to let go of you and I remember: I wanted to help you. I wanted to heal you. I wanted to love you, in anyways a could (as a lover and then a friend) but you wouldn't let me.
You are just like me. I could not help you because I could not help myself. Now I have, and I am and I hope you can do the same for yourself. I no longer wish you hell, I wish you well. Have a nice life, shining honey bear. ((even if you'll never see this))