Hey dad did you know the chicken we keep locked in the garage lays brown eggs in the dusty stacks of disregarded things? Did you know I find every one? A survivalist Easter hunt in a salmonella **** shed. You didn't know because I never told you, for fear you'd eat them as a joke, or worse throw them away. But you left the door open and she's gone anyway.
Hey dad did you know my car broke down on 17th street? You do because I called you on your way to church at midnight. You wished me luck. You'll pray for me. You gave me the car, thank you.
Hey dad did you know that I once used your hand made birthday card to stop the bleeding of a neighbor boy who thought your Scottish swords were fake? No you don't because you weren't home.
Hey dad do you realize you voted against me this year? I lost my insurance last week. You do know, but do you care? You keep saying that you love me. You yelled at all my races. Asked for prayers when I had surgery. Learned the names of all my friends. Read my poetry when I was 13.
But hey dad did you know that was never what I needed?
I needed a dad that didn't have the nerve to joke about how I made new families with my dolls, and friends when I was older. I needed a dad who instead of acting like his family was taken from him kept his together.
And smaller things too. I needed money for school. I needed doctor visits. I need my insurance now, dad. I needed food, and a dad who picked me up from school.
And a dad that instead of praying for me raised me like my life wasn't broken, raised me like I didn't always owe him.