When you live your life through a sober lens you have to open up your heart to all the hurt and the hardships that are going to come with it but when you open up your heart it leads to great things you can feel love and joy and you can have the help and the company of all those around you Living life for the sober soul is more than just living to feel pain it's living so you can feel all of the great things that come along with being alive. And if you can't open your heart to even those piercing feelings how do you expect to feel anything ever again?