al - call her! schedule a time! be genuine and kind and talk about events and ideas, not others!

an- ask her about HER. schedule a time! lead the fun but let her know you are there for serious times!

be- bond! support her and learn about her

ca- no sham in appreciation! start things!

ch- tolerance! have intelligent conversations and then ask to meet her dog

d- help him understand right from wrong. always empathize. dont let him drown

e- once again, tolerance. call her!

k- apologize but keep distance. tell the whole truth and nothing but it.

o- TALK to her!dont put her in a position she does not want to be in. take time to form good trust again

v- stop inviting him to stuff/ talking to him and see if he talks to you.