Guilt, sorrow or obligation are not love or compatibility A soul mate isn't just nice or there just to make you happy These things cannot force the issue of where your true self lies It is wrong to take the gifts of another under false pretenses The sooner this is realized the better off all you will be True understanding of yourself will open the door to your life Once you can begin to live alone, then you can begin to share your life The decision to share your life must be made from a position of strength The decisions of a confused mind can cause endless turmoil Know who you are so you can know what you can give Learn to make your decisions based upon your true self Shed the desires that others have of your life Their wishes come from their own weaknesses, not your strength Remember the things you've always wanted and take them to heart That is who you are Find that person It's you...