Be cautious of what you dish out & what you take. Things should just flow, know the difference between a river and a lake. One has a destination, a purpose, the other is just sitting there being convenient. & some people are like lakes, they'll say they can take you places but it's impossible for them to mean it. If you're a river just be aware of the people that are so much like all the boats that transport stuff. Those people who wipe their tears with your flaws, you know the ones who have to push you down a little bit so they can stay up. Never be scared to asked "what is it", "where are we", or "where are we going". Because growth is the only evidence of life, you're probably dead if you're not growing.