Stop romanticizing the people who hurt you Don't compare them to a dead flower Or a sunset Talk about how they erupted like a volcano Talk about how they made you fall like a tree They are storm clouds Bad habits Don't talk about the way they chose to love you Talk about how they spoke when they were angry Describe their impatience Don't use a metaphor to illustrate the curves of their smiles The beauty of their eyes Talk about the shape of their fists The noise behind the slamming doors Don't act like you were the problem and all they did was try and find a solution You are not a math problem You are an abstract painting And they never took the time to fully look at you Let alone appreciate all you had to offer Let's not talk about what you might have done wrong Let's talk about how they reacted Why do we have to punish ourselves because someone else didn't know how to love us Why do we break a part our way of thinking to match someone else's thought process We are all tiny planets Small universes Don't cover up your own beauty and wonder just because someone wasn't prepared Shine the way you want to Let's talk about that