About half the world is female, while the rest of us are male, and some of us are rather young, while others are quite a bit older. Some people are emotional, and wear their heart on their sleeve, and others, from the outside, may appear to be rather colder. Some writers are extremely careful to obey all the rules, while others in their attitude are very much bolder. Some may be quite tolerant and easy-going, but others seem to have some kind of chip on their shoulder. In fact, from what I have observed over the years, in some cases it's not so much a chip as a boulder.
Oh yes. By the way, please write this down and store it very carefully in your poetry folder — It is most definitely not a definition of "well-balanced" if you are carrying a chip on both the left and the right shoulder.
Nil carborundum illegitimi - mock-Latin for "Don't let the b-st-rds grind you down." (Having written that, I don't know why I said it, but who cares!)