My mother and IΒ Β met on Cupid.com I was thirteen and she was forty-five; but on her profile she was listed as twenty-nine. We agreed to meet at the local Starbucks on a Sunday afternoon.
The sun was out; it's rays like orange sprinkles dusting the dead, green earth and snake-like sidewalks.
I sat in the far corner, my head in a book; every now and then peeking over the pages my finger bookmarked. I was reading ******, and I had not made it past the first page. Lo-Lee- Ta, or something rather.
She arrived ten minutes later than the time we agreed on, but I wasn't angry. She offered to buy me a Iced Vanilla Frappuccino and salted caramel cake-pop but I declined.
We sat there for what seemed like a decade. I was too busy looking around; acting like I was admiring the art on the walls; and she was playing with her hands; humming to a popular female folk singer- songwriter that was playing over the loudspeakers.
'I can go,' she said after the track finished.
'No, it's okay. Stay, please' I said.
There was silence.
'It's been a while since I've seen you' she said.
'I know, I know' I said, 'You lied about your age. That's not cool'
'Sorry about that. I just didn't know if you'd like me if I was older than forty..'
'That's the entire point, no?' I interrupted.
And I didn't notice she had bad posture until she started fidgeting with her hair; it was in a loose, unkempt bun. She tugged at the hair tie until it all fell down to her shoulders.
I was finally relieved to see that I had a beautiful mother and soon suggested that we go to her place and talk about my childhood.
She smiled, and made an attempt to grab the car keys she left on the table, but I was quicker.
'No,' I said laughing, 'I'm driving'.
And that was the first time I ever took charge; and nothing has changed since.