you are resting, at long last, your journey done, and all that's left are memories good and bad. i needed you, and you were there, as a father should be for a child, to nurture and grow and discipline - to be an example. and now, as i have done many times before, i lay myself to rest, another version of me taking up space in the cemetery of my forbears, all laid to rest with the same loving care as a new me takes his rightful place. i carry the torch, now, and know that one day this will be my home, too, as another generation will take up this standard. my son, i lay no burden on you but this: live with the heart of the fire, love with the depth of the oceans, fight with the strength of the mountain, and speak with the breath of the wind.