I do not say 'I love you.'
I don't like to be touched
I won't listen to affectionate speeches
I refuse to be fussed over
I can't accept mushy cards or presents
I barely understand words of emotion

I hold hands or link arms to feel close
I offer advice if it's needed (even if you do not ask)
I can make you smile or laugh if you're scared or angry
I give without expecting back
I defend even at my own expense
I talk to fill the silence, even when I wish for quiet
I will never say something intentionally hurtful
I always think first
I will only tell you what you need to hear
I will teach you to be a better you

I do not say 'I love you.'

But I know how.