there’s this phrase that i’ve heard one that i adore and despise “care deeply, hurt easily, cry readily” do you want to know my dilemma with this? it’s because it describes me and i hate that and i love that it’s a problem for me i’ll break it down for you but, i should warn you i don’t know anymore “care deeply” it’s a blessing and a curse a blessing because i allow people into my life who enrich it easily form true friendships love those who love me a curse because i allow people into my life who destroy it easily form fake friendships love those who hate me it’s a vicious cycle one that i cannot escape but do i want to even escape? i don’t know anymore “hurt easily” i don’t know if this is a good thing i don’t think it is i don’t enjoy being hurt i loathe the fact that i hurt i don’t see much of a benefit to hurt and to being hurt that might just be me but i regret every single time that i have caused someone to be hurt it’s something nagging me i don’t know anymore “cry readily” i hate the fact that i cry i’ve been told it’s a good thing that i feel compassion for others but sometimes i don’t want to why can’t i be calloused? why must i cry when others do? why can’t i be stronger? or is it weakness? i don’t know anymore “care deeply, hurt easily, cry readily” i don’t know anymore what are the pros what are the cons would you tell me?