"You had *** with her on a first date?". > I don't care,you are just her ex and now she's with me. • "She's not beautiful, she is fat and she has stretch marks". > well , To me she is perfect & that's what matters.. You can talk. • "She used to date this other sugar daddy and she has many ex's". > Thats her past and I dont care about that because now I'm her only guy. • "She had an abortion while she was in High School." > look She had her own reasons, so thats none of your business and I wont dump her for what she did in the past. • "She used to go clubbing a lot, with the guys." > so what!! you think she is a bi*? well she's my girlfriend now. •"She got pregnant when she was 17, what a shame" > look, you dont know her story,Stop judging other people as if your life is perfect. Moral: 1. never judge anyone by their past activities. 2. Never let anyone's opinion stop you from dating the person who makes you happy. 3. stop letting people make you feel ashamed of your scars. – 4. Scars remind us that our past is real, and that we have grown beyond it. Every scar has a story. 5. Don’t be afraid to tell it and own it. 6. Stop letting people use your past to poison your present. – 7. Life is too short to tirelessly struggle with old news and those who refuse to let it go. 8. Some people cannot stand that you’re moving on with your life and so they will try to drag your past to catch up with you. No matter what, people will always talk. Anyway Let them Talk my love i don't care ngithanda wena wedwa. as long as she/he loves you let them talk is yours they have they don't want to see people happy cause they are not happy in their relationship.