Blaming others is a waste of time. It solves nothing. It may take the heat off you a while but you'll end up a failure with your excuses.

Beware the pride & arrogance in you that credit yourself for all your successes but point a finger at others for your failures.

Remember, everyone has a story. If you've been blessed, don't be arrogant. Stay humble and learn to feel someone else's fear, pain and sorrow.