At home, there is fullness. There is not taking for granted the smell of your mother or the shuffle of her soft pajama pants as she makes you both coffee in the quiet unmoving morning. Blanket. Colors. Television.
At home, there is forgetting. There is a solid layer between you and the demands of The World. Your family takes your hand, persuades you: “just stay here. Sit down. Have another cup of coffee”. Quiet. Agreements. Closed windows.
At home, there is guilt. No, there is a version of guilt that is more like longing. It’s more like wishing that seconds were as long as millenia. Knowing that you’re choosing to leave this behind. Put on a coat. Pack a bag. Cause a commotion. Break the silence that defines this comfortable and loving place.
But you know that at home, there is leaving. There is expending of time and energy. There must be chunks of yourself that you throw out there to The World because it matters. Fear. Exhaustion. Exhilaration. There are things to be seen, and lived. There are people to meet. There is a better self to be found. There are notches to make on your belt, and boxes to check on your list.
There are sisters, mothers, brothers, dogs, cats, frogs, couches, blankets, dinners, colors to tell these things too. Because at home, there is always coming home.