I agree that love is the most important, but it is after all an idea, a figure of speech, like time, also a non existent element which can be bent and extended according to circumstances in the mind.
Love is an expression of a sentiment, we give it itβs worth, each in our own individual manner, being different and yet the same, each expressing their love, which after all is self love too, as without the capacity to love oneself, one cannot love another.
Falling in love is only an emphasis on those feelings that create our sensations of need and giving to a hyper sensitive state which permeates our all and in some way takes over our common sense in its fervour, there, to goad the ****** functions to reproduce the species; that is the grand puzzle, why do we wish to reproduce ourselves?