If every single person you know was happy with every single decision took, then it would be like the snake and mongoose posing together!..miracles like this don't happen in the real world and you shouldn't expect them to happen.Every single decision you take in life will first and foremost impact you.So,it's important that while taking a decision you first think of yourself...and this not you being selfish but being practical..sure there are the odd trying circumstances when you're forced to take a decision...but in general the rule has to be-me first.You don't want to take a wrong decision just for the sake of pleasing others and then end up regretting it.