I don't know how to explain the ache in my chest I don't have words for a chronic emptiness, not numbness but a keen awareness that the gap is there- I don't have words. I'm all out of them. Pain, I think, suddenly more than there has been, (it comes in waves), but I was absolutely right that one drive when I told myself this is the worst it will ever feel and by God, it's only uphill from here.