people have a right to feel however they want because feelings, in the end, don't matter in themselves. It's what you do, what you say, and who you become that matters. I can feel however I want because that sure as hell isn't going to change the way I act and it is an intrusion and a violation to prohibit one feeling or the other when a feeling isn't expressed, if it isn't affecting the external world. If I am not putting it out for you to see, it is not yours to tamper or condemn. If it is not changing others' lives for better or for worse then it's not anyone's **** business how I feel. It is mine, it is mine, it is mine, it is mine, it is mine until I give it to you, it is not yours. It is mine.