When I think of healing, I think of the pain that comes with ripping a band aid off a scab. The anticipation running through your body as you shut your eyes too hard and feel the blood in your eyelids swim rapidly down to the wound. Healing, in a lighter sense, only occurs after an injury. The dead flowers under the snow we thought nothing of as we dragged our sleds behind us through the winter evening. They had three months to perfect their beauty. They will go through the same healing process every spring. I often think of myself as a flower under an untouched bed of snow. A child, dragging his sled, nostalgic for the icy breeze slamming his face as he faces the bottom of the hill, steps on me. He thinks nothing of it. Possibly the dandelion we ignore among the rest as we dance with our lover through summer fields feel similar. Ignorant because we as people don't assume the dandelion can feel like a wallflower. Someone else will come along and pick the dandelion, and put him down. And the healing process will begin again. It may be the newspaper that someone spilled their morning coffee on or the hole in the wall after an angry drunken fight. Don't worry. The paper will meet the recycling bin and perhaps the new family who moved in will repair the wall. The healing process doesn't end. There is always beauty that comes from pain.