Eliminating all ritual because "nothing can be good enough for God" is like not buying your mom a birthday present because you can't express your love in a present. **** it up and buy your mom a present. Destroying all connections to God because He is indescribable is atheistic and nihilistic in nature because it's saying we should not even try because we're doomed to fail; it's saying that we are nothing. And we know we are something because He told us. Saying God wants us to just "do our own thing as long as it gets us to Him" is forgetting every time God gave us specific and exact instructions about how to reach Him and is forgetting that God told us to deny ourselves, to lose our lives so that we may take them up again. God didn't say to follow our hearts. He said to follow His heart.