I read an article lately saying that in order to be a good writer you just have to write ; not to please others but only focus on writing , so I thought that maybe that's the problem , admitting that my approach to be a good writer is not adequate for the task and it made me realize that sometimes getting over other people expectations gives us the chance to reach the image we draw for ourselves without even noticing , and the funny thing with this way of dealing with such a dilemma is even if I don't reach what I want, I don't become the eligible writer I think I can be , I can't be disappointed, writing from my heart ......... writing is a fun process that should be done with passion or not done at all .