There is a lot of nonsense about the image of women and what "perfect" is. You've been fed **** and maybe you should understand a few truths if you value quality in people. A black woman is perfect as is.How you find her. Not your idea of what she is or how she "should" be. She is not a fetish you've built up from all the **** you see on television, read on magazines or the ones you secretly view with shame and embarrassment from the **** collection you ******* to. A black woman's body is none of your concern until she makes it your concern. She is not put on this earth to be gawked by you just because your favorite rapper views women in that way. Don't be Foolish you idiot. That weak way of thinking, that perspective is stupid and frankly utter fuckboyery. I believe in you, please don't disappoint me. Instead of whistling when you see a good woman, hold that **** back and calm your urges to be crass and idiotic. Stop your friend from talking **** about black women. Dissociate from the cool **** ***** whose only concern is racking up conquests and ******* then dumping women. Do better. Call your ******* on their ******* instead of perpetuating the same old garbage mentality we came up on. That having more than one dime makes you it. Gets you made. That calling women names for peer approval makes you hard and a leader. A leader to what? A leader to where? Your perception of a perfect woman should be the happiness you're going to give that one lady, that one woman by the way you accept her as is, how happy you make her by the way you encourage her growth and self acceptance cause they all come with insecurities, negative nuances, shames, scars, pains from a past you probably will never hear of until you earn that sacred trust and lightning strikes that should fill you with pride when you study them. Why? Because of all men that could have her, she saw her man, her future, her truth, her life and her possibility and potential unfold beautifully with you and you alone. And she chose YOU. (And trust me, there are ten/twenty to thirty + men that can do a way better job than you out there who've either hollered and got turned down or those who've made plans to and probably will).