Q: When a man chokes you in a crowded bar as he looks past the brim of his black hat and matches his eyes with yours, are you supposed to feel self-hatred?
Q: When a man wipes your tears away with his button-down shirt, tells you itβs all right, and wraps his arms around you, are you supposed to feel love?
Q: When a man sets a knife down, pushes your face into a brick wall and pulls your pants off, are you supposed to feel shame?