munching on blueberry poptarts watching buzzfeed videos putting off writing about you and your book which i made it through ten pages before i started to cry and i felt your pain all around me like a suffocating blanket and i felt like i did when i overdosed last year well kind of like that my teeth were chattering they still are my heart was beating really **** fast and i was sweating and shaking the birds under my skin were trying to fly south for warmer climates i cried for you for debra for rayni for all the people that are gone way too soon without a goodbye and the footprints that your family have left on my heart are a mile deep in every direction i have cracks pointing in all the cardinal directions but none of them can find her and bring her home and i am truly sorry and yes i know that you should never start a sentence with and but that is the word that my brain my addled mind so often gets stuck on and and and i am sorry ty my aunt’s doggy he came and kept me company swinging back and forth out in the hammock cursing the bright morning sun that assaulted me eyes drying my tears on my cheeks like little salty crystals ty would come over every few minutes in the hour or so that it took me to finish your book and he would nudge up against me for pets i got dirt from his coat on some of the pages now there are parts of both of us intermingled with your intense pain reading your book made me want to put on pants and get my life in order but the hammock and the breeze so cool and cold after so many days of heat kept me rooted lounging smothered in a pain that is not my own your book made me want to pray go the whole nine yards and get down on my knees but all i do when i pray is yell at the sky and swear loudly for all the injustices in this ****** world there are bruises and scratches self inflicted in my sleep littered about my arms but i don’t count this as self harm because there was no cruel intent behind it and after reading your book i know that you know what it feels like to take it out on yourself and that scares me because i’ve always thought of you as a pillar of strength but i guess that growing up is watching your heroes turn human but i know what it feels like to take out the pain and hurt and blame on your self it’s what i did for four **** years but it is not your fault it is not your fault and i know that i’m just a dumb kid but i know in my heart of hearts that it is not your fault it is not your fault