"Ten things you understand if you're this or that" screams the title of another Internet list, where people go to feel they're not alone, scroll through a generalized view of our age group, a world so relate-able you're no longer you, you're a '90s kid' or a 'tomboyish girl'; we all want to be unique, yet we buy into this stereotyping technique to feel connected with people we'll never meet. Is it strange that I want to define 'me'? not a lengthy list on a computer screen, not strangers who lump me into a category. I'll tell me what I want to be.