A young man Impatient and ruthless A real to the point kind of guy Just like his father. As he was building a house On the edge of the forrest He did as father taught him The wood was soft and flexible So rather than taking his time Hammer each nail in to the wood He beat each of them In to the wood One nail, one hit Efficient The blow created tension within the wood That nail will never come out again Had he taken his time He could've removed The rusty nails with less effort To change what needed changing 20 years from now
It's just like that When we speak to people. Be forcefull And create an unyielding mindset Be gentle And create a flexible surface For evolution.
When we don't know why someone gets upset by our harsh words, it is often because we lack the compassion to speak kindly to ourselves first. This causes us to be blind to how we speak with others and wonder where it all went wrong when it turns out they find us intimitating.