The very first time I had ever had my coffee black was because I was just being polite. A man wanted to brew me coffee. I sat at his table with the candle I gave him and it was the only light in the room. He brought me a cup, and told me he had no cream or sugar. What was I to do? He brewed it specifically for me. I didn’t speak. I choked down the black sludge. He talked of his travels and his photographs of sequoias. We shared a cigarette and he rubbed olive oil in my hands. I grew tired and decided to depart and I thanked him for his hospitality. I have not put cream or sugar in my coffee since.