send her off to the woods and let her know the hum of the cicada and the rhythm of the rain and how it feels to be silent but not really. make her see the forest and see how she is not important and that in the grand scheme of things and in the midst of the wrath of mother nature she is nothing, and that is okay. take her out there and leave her so she may learn and live and grow so she can feel herself in the earth so she may tread silently without even thinking about it.