When you realise Lie is a function of mind, while truth is real like air, heat, neurons and apple, True love, to be real, needs to be beyond mind, and measurable Only perceived by something more honest than mind.
When you realise action is real and not emotion, True love, to be real, needs to be expressed in action regardless of the emotion in mind.
Marriage is most honest as convenience and most dishonest as punch drunk love The pursuit of the emotion of love is futile as it is transient and unreal by definition Love that is real is expressed in action Love that is real is not of the mind.