okay so...................
you know that you are putting them through hell, yet you continue and find it some what not a private matter so you go and tell your friends about it and make up ridiculous lies that they surprisingly believe..............

let me give you a dead on percentage range of
what you do and don't know-
what you know- 10%
what you don't know-90%

you know that you have problems, that you put them through hell yet they stay only out of love, that when they try to talk to you you cut them off because you don't agree with what they say etc.

but what you don't know is that
the reason of you 13 yr. old daughter having anger issues and respect problems is only because of how much you work you make her do one after the other and how you drive her up a wall, also the only **** reason she doesn't curse you up and freak out when you very much upset her is because she doesn't want to say what she wants to say(because you will be shocked as to what she has to say), so she sees a guidance counsellor in school with no one knowing. also....................that your 16 yr. old daughter who is preparing for one of the biggest exams in her life, had a mental break down in school because of everything going on at home. thankfully she was able to keep it under control.

don't be responsible for these things .
oh! also what you don't know is that your family is through with thinking that your problems are causing you to behave in such a manner because though it is they and you all know that you can stop if you wish but you don't..................... so..........................

what are you going to do after these 12+ yrs. doing this to your family,
what are you going to do when they decide to finally leave you and be happy and free?
HUH?!?!?!?
what are you going to do?