So literately, Say you are walking forward ahead of your friends and family. Your are walking a little bit faster to get to your destination. Everything in front of you is new nothing you have ever seen before, but there is no one there with you. If you slow down your caught up with them again. Makes sense. Slow down enjoy the time you have with them. Don't fall behind you seen all that **** already & no one else is there. Your alone. Don't run ahead no one is there for you to share the sites with. Walk beside them, enjoy them.