My mom told me that the only way relationships work is if the hole in your heart is already filled before you meet someone new.
Their hole must be filled too.
It doesn't work when you're empty and they try to fill you because once they leave you're empty again.
So next time you try to fill my hole remind me to ask which one you're aiming for.
But since I don't think I'm full on my own maybe just fill my other hole until I'm whole by myself.