As a carpenter sees a house in a pile of wood, so you must see a life in two people. To build a life you must know how all of the pieces fit, You must start with understand, then add patient's with a sprinkle of humility. Bring these together with acceptance which then turns into love. These things bind two people together as a solid foundation. Once the pair are joined, then the bricks are laid over time. Support for one another in good times and bad. Love of family and commitment put up the walls and finally longevity finishes the plan and thus a life is built between two people that if properly executed will stand the test of time.