all the songs we listen to tell us "I just love them so much and if I just love them enough and just write this song then everything will work out and they'll love me too" but that's not how it works, love is not a serenade love is a relationship, a partnership and something that isn't rehearsed or dramatic, it's a duet of terrible voices as they try to harmonize and fail but laugh, and dance together, and people who are too uncomfortable to say what they feel it can never be perfect, but it is musical, I think just not what we expect- and we have to train ourselves and relearn what it means to be a human person we've been taught wrong. forget it. it's not what you think.