how to bite the hand that feeds you oh darling, i’m an expert at that you slam the door in their face when they ask you to let them in and you hold your breath when they say i love you on the telephone you purse your lips into a perfect line as their arms encircle you in a hug and with their last breath they’ll tell you they love you and only then - will you return the gesture along with the regret of years of neglect.