i grew up with no daddy, he left when i was 3, random men here and there helpin' out, barely had a momma, she was in college and couldn't pay attention to me, then when i was 11, moved in with an iranian guy they got married in court and he was pronounced my "step dad" he was verbally abusive and ocd didn't give me love, wasn't like a father and my mother was in her own little world technically i was parent-less? i have issues.